{"id":48933,"date":"2023-11-02T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-02T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=48933"},"modified":"2023-11-02T10:59:56","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T14:59:56","slug":"why-societal-timelines-might-be-limiting-our-potential","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2023\/11\/02\/why-societal-timelines-might-be-limiting-our-potential\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Societal Timelines MIGHT be Limiting Our Potential"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Finish undergrad in 4 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find internships during the summer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Get accepted into a postgrad program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Get hired straight out of graduation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Work till 65.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Retire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are all things we\u2019ve probably heard sometime in our academic career, but many of us struggle to stick to this timeline. I am currently in my second year of a Master of Social Work degree, and this is what I wish I knew earlier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"708\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1-1024x708.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of Hart House, University of Toronto\" class=\"wp-image-49080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1-1024x708.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1-768x531.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1-1536x1063.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT403_20040701_HartHouse_004-1.jpg 1999w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption><em>Courtesy: University of Toronto Communications<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>During my first two years of undergrad, I did 5 courses per semester and struggled to balance my commitments. I constantly felt like I needed to not fall behind everyone else. It wasn\u2019t until the end of second year when, after talking to my peers, I realized many people felt the same way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I decided to take fewer courses and graduate in 5 years instead. I started to apply to relevant work and volunteering experiences and noticed that both my grades and mental health improved; I was less burnt out compared to other semesters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of the CCT building, University of Toronto Mississauga\" class=\"wp-image-49089\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2023\/10\/UofT3763_20121019_UTMCCTBuilding_008-1-1-1-2048x1366.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Courtesy: Cesar Mejia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In my master\u2019s program, most of my cohort are people who\u2019ve had fulfilling careers in other disciplines, such as computer science, law, financial management, psychology and research. Each of our journeys to social work have been so different. It is okay to take longer to figure out what you want, it is okay to start a career and switch paths, and it is okay to work for a few years before you apply to grad school. In summary, it is okay to find your own path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is my story of how I changed my path. I recognize I had the privilege of extending my time at school and not everyone will be able to do the same. But adhering to the pathways society sets out for us can prevent us from chasing what we truly want. I hope this helps you realize that the beauty of life is that it\u2019s your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Linda Ben (she\/her) is a peer mentor with Academic Success and is in her second year of her Master of Social Work degree. <a href=\"https:\/\/studentlife.utoronto.ca\/service\/academic-mentor-appointments\/\">You can read more about peer mentor appointments here.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nFinish undergrad in 4 years. Find internships during the summer. Get accepted into a postgrad program. Get hired straight out of graduation. Work till 65. Retire. These are all things we\u2019ve probably heard sometime in our academic career, but many&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2023\/11\/02\/why-societal-timelines-might-be-limiting-our-potential\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Why Societal Timelines MIGHT be Limiting Our Potential&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2023\/11\/02\/why-societal-timelines-might-be-limiting-our-potential\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Why Societal Timelines MIGHT be Limiting Our Potential&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":48935,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[66,67,68,77],"tags":[127,9668,172,52178,1645,25510],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48933"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48933"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48933\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49092,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48933\/revisions\/49092"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48933"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48933"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48933"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}