{"id":44412,"date":"2021-03-15T01:50:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T05:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=44412"},"modified":"2021-03-15T15:46:18","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T19:46:18","slug":"fear-of-graduation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2021\/03\/15\/fear-of-graduation\/","title":{"rendered":"Fear of Graduation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s coming to the end of my four years at U of T and now I\u2019ve started facing the fact that I have no idea how to function outside of the school system. If all goes well with passing classes and such (finger-crossed) I will be graduating this June, but that means figuring out what I\u2019ll actually be doing next year!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"599\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/06\/Con-Hall-Graduates--1024x599.jpg\" alt=\"A picture of Con Hall with graduate posters\" class=\"wp-image-31506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/06\/Con-Hall-Graduates--1024x599.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/06\/Con-Hall-Graduates--300x175.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember feeling a similar way when I graduated high school and was about to begin first year uni: super anxious about the college life I knew nothing about, yet also really excited to experience everything new.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wanted to write this blog post because I\u2019m sure there are a lot of people who feel a similar way--and who are just as nervous and relieved about graduating as I am. What I worry about the most is losing contact with my friends. In some ways our graduating class may be a little more prepared for keeping in contact with friends over Zoom, but, knowing that we are going our separate paths, moving to far away cities--some across the globe, with no fall semester to unite us in Toronto once more, is a little terrifying.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-1024x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"Charles Street with cool clouds above it. \" class=\"wp-image-44423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-1536x1536.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-2048x2048.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_2066-448x448.jpeg 448w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Charles Street (Campus)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;I\u2019m certain there are plenty of people to meet and friendships to be made in every new place; however, to try and stay in contact, my friends and I have decided to try and keep up a book club. We\u2019re planning on facetiming a couple times a month to share our own writing and talk about books we\u2019ve read.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The biggest factor is that there is a huge unknown about the future, with no clear answer about where we will all end up. I\u2019ve become familiar with the same schedule while attending U of T--and while I do know that I will be attending grad school next year, it\u2019s still daunting to not be following the same routine I\u2019ve known for the past four years.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-1024x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"Messy desk, black and white photo, stacked with library books. \" class=\"wp-image-44422\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-1536x1536.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-2048x2048.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2021\/03\/IMG_1538-448x448.jpeg 448w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>My familiar messy desk<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m excited to take a new step in my life, to seek new opportunities, and meet new people, but graduation can be scary as well. I think it\u2019s worth allowing yourself to feel worried and excited at the same time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are also graduating but aren\u2019t sure about where the world will take you next, check out the <a href=\"https:\/\/studentlife.utoronto.ca\/department\/career-exploration-education\/\">Career Exploration &amp; Education<\/a> or the U of T <a href=\"https:\/\/alumni.utoronto.ca\/benefits-and-travel\/career-development-services\/U-of-T-Career-Centre-for-recent-grads\">Alumni resources page<\/a> to find job opportunities, and learn resume writing and interview skills.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are graduating, or have graduated, I would love to hear your thoughts!\ud83d\ude04<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nIt\u2019s coming to the end of my four years at U of T and now I\u2019ve started facing the fact that I have no idea how to function outside of the school system. If all goes well with passing classes&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2021\/03\/15\/fear-of-graduation\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Fear of Graduation&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2021\/03\/15\/fear-of-graduation\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Fear of Graduation&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":376,"featured_media":44413,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7204,7206,6669,59,65,1,66,67,68,77],"tags":[9570,552,15882,15679,27716,25687,9514],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44412"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/376"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44412"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44412\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":44425,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44412\/revisions\/44425"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44413"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44412"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44412"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44412"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}