{"id":42156,"date":"2020-09-11T05:53:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T09:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=42156"},"modified":"2020-09-09T09:18:25","modified_gmt":"2020-09-09T13:18:25","slug":"dealing-with-a-bad-day-how-i-bounce-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2020\/09\/11\/dealing-with-a-bad-day-how-i-bounce-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with a bad day- how I bounce back"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This past week has been particularly rough for me and I suddenly found myself feeling overwhelmed by the future and everything going on around me, so this week, I wanted to share how I bounce back from my bad days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I realized that it's okay to stop what I\u2019m doing and just take deep breaths. I found that meditation is a great way to calm myself when I\u2019m feeling frustrated or stressed. After meditating, I always feel more relaxed and ready to take on my day. If I don\u2019t have time for yoga, I usually opt for a quick session of deep breathing which I find works just as well \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-42158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218-448x448.jpg 448w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0218.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>A great breathing app on my watch for meditation! <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Writing or journaling is a great way to express your thoughts without having to talk to someone if you\u2019re not comfortable doing so. This weekend, I wrote down all my thoughts in my journal. On the left, I wrote down everything that went well and that I was happy about. On the right, I wrote down all my struggles. This technique helps me understand exactly what\u2019s bothering me which provides a foundation for me to solve my problems. Another great alternative is to just brainstorm all my thoughts on paper\u2014it doesn\u2019t have to be structured!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I admit that I spend too much time dreading my problems than understanding how my problems came to be in the first place. It\u2019s important to reflect on my life so that I avoid getting myself in the same situation again. Did I take on more than I can handle? How could I have handled that situation better? I find that taking a walk outside is a great way to self-reflect. After doing so, I find that I have a new perspective on things and I'm more open-minded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0203-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-42159\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0203-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0203-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0203-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2020\/09\/IMG_0203.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption>Taking a nice walk helps sooth my mind!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As the semester begins, I hope this blog can help you find ways to overcome whatever struggles you may be facing. Virtual hugs for everyone!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nThis past week has been particularly rough for me and I suddenly found myself feeling overwhelmed by the future and everything going on around me, so this week, I wanted to share how I bounce back from my bad days.&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2020\/09\/11\/dealing-with-a-bad-day-how-i-bounce-back\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Dealing with a bad day- how I bounce back&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2020\/09\/11\/dealing-with-a-bad-day-how-i-bounce-back\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Dealing with a bad day- how I bounce back&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":377,"featured_media":42161,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1758,7204,62,1,82,67],"tags":[78,259,15677,1439,27558,237,1804,441,1837,27690],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42156"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/377"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42156"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42156\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42160,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42156\/revisions\/42160"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42161"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}