{"id":38327,"date":"2019-06-13T08:00:23","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T12:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=38327"},"modified":"2019-06-12T08:03:04","modified_gmt":"2019-06-12T12:03:04","slug":"city-mouse-country-mouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2019\/06\/13\/city-mouse-country-mouse\/","title":{"rendered":"City Mouse, Country Mouse"},"content":{"rendered":"<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When I first came to U of T it was daunting. I\u2019d had my heart set on studying in Toronto all throughout high school but that didn\u2019t mean I was prepared for life in the big city. I came from a town where you run into people you know A LOT. In fact, the number of students at U of T is almost twice as big as my hometown\u2019s total population! To say the least, it was a big change for me. <\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I used to dream about the anonymity of the city. It\u2019s true, being unknown in a new place can be freeing and it helps you grow as a person, but it can also be lonely. It wasn\u2019t that I didn\u2019t know that the city would be different --I\u2019d been to Toronto a thousand times before-- but I wasn\u2019t prepared for all the small things. Strangers don\u2019t say hello when you pass them on the street, and your cashier doesn't have time for a five minute conversation at the checkout. I found that the lack of these little interactions, that I was so accustomed to experiencing at home, affected me more than anything else.\u00a0(Toronto also seems to lack the mud covered trucks and excessive camo sweater-wearers that I'm familiar with, but I don't miss that one bit.)<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What I learned from this was: <strong>Humans need community.<\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3414-e1560291287115.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38329 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3414-e1560291287115-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Old Vic Building in the Winter. \" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3414-e1560291287115-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3414-e1560291287115-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_1358-1-e1560291442290.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38331 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_1358-1-e1560291442290-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Old Vic Building in the Fall. \" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_1358-1-e1560291442290-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_1358-1-e1560291442290-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sure, it can be difficult to find a community in a new place. But since there are so many people around it means there are lots of options! Now, the thing about U of T is that it has separate colleges. At first I could not wrap my head around the college system but after being a Vic student for two years I couldn\u2019t be more grateful for it. Victoria College was where I found my community. Being part of Vic was like being home again. It was a smaller number of people, and from my experience, everyone wanted to talk. Soon enough I could recognize people on the street whenever I was out and they\u2019d wave or say hello. Those interactions made a huge difference for me. I felt welcome, and I felt at home.<\/span>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3276-e1560291395885.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38330 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3276-e1560291395885-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"The lake on a cloudy day. \" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3276-e1560291395885-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_3276-e1560291395885-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_5062.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-38333 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_5062-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Me trying to stand on a log by the lake. \" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_5062-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2019\/06\/IMG_5062-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Anyway, I\u2019m back home for the summer and I already miss university life (and I have about 500 photos of fields and lakes because there is nothing else to take pictures of here). If you couldn\u2019t tell already, I\u2019m like a permanently homesick person because I like both places I live a whole lot, but it seems I just get to experience the best of both worlds.<\/span>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nWhen I first came to U of T it was daunting. I\u2019d had my heart set on studying in Toronto all throughout high school but that didn\u2019t mean I was prepared for life in the big city. I came from&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2019\/06\/13\/city-mouse-country-mouse\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;City Mouse, Country Mouse&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2019\/06\/13\/city-mouse-country-mouse\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;City Mouse, Country Mouse&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":376,"featured_media":38328,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7204,59,1,66,82],"tags":[7228,153,10900,25506,1837,144],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38327"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/376"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38327"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38327\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38336,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38327\/revisions\/38336"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38328"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38327"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38327"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38327"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}