{"id":31017,"date":"2017-03-07T10:11:23","date_gmt":"2017-03-07T15:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=31017"},"modified":"2017-03-07T10:11:23","modified_gmt":"2017-03-07T15:11:23","slug":"networking-is-getting-a-little-easier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2017\/03\/07\/networking-is-getting-a-little-easier\/","title":{"rendered":"Networking is Getting a Little Easier"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_31018\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31018\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-31018\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640-300x215.png\" alt=\"A wordle of job-related words\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640-300x215.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31018\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Job-related words... get it? Picture via Pixabay<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nSo, networking is something I\u2019ve always struggled with. I\u2019m afraid people will think I\u2019m trying to schmooze. I\u2019m afraid of awkward silences. I\u2019m, overall, a very self-conscious person when it comes to networking. However, after going to workshops and networking events\u2014mainly because of my Career Centre Student Blogger job\u2014networking is starting to get a little easier every time.\r\n\r\n<!--more-->\r\n\r\nThis week, I attended Jobs with Words\u2014a career event where students can mingle with professions who have, well, jobs with words. The event featured authors, journalists, publishers, and many other literary-centric professionals. To be honest, it was almost like this career event was created for me, because my ideal career after university involves words. It was a great experience to talk to professionals from different careers to hear about their career pathways, how they ended up discovering what they wanted to do after school, and what their jobs are like.\r\n\r\nEach professional had their own table, and students could talk with each professional for about five to ten minutes, either one-on-one or in a group, depending on how busy it was. It would have been easier\u2014and a lot less nerve-wracking\u2014to talk to the professionals with a group. But I decided to wait until the crowds subsided and talked to most of the professionals one-on-one.\r\n\r\nIt was honestly a spur-of-the-moment decision. To be honest, I hadn\u2019t prepared a long list of questions to ask because I wasn\u2019t expecting to have so much one-on-one opportunities with the professionals. Luckily, after attending so many Career Centre events, informational interview questions are ingrained in my brain, and I managed to ask a lot of questions that I was actually interested in. I\u2019m glad I decided to step out of my comfort zone and speak to the professionals one-on-one, because the event was much more rewarding, and I think I ended up getting the most out of the experience.\r\n\r\nIt felt more like mini-informational interview rather than networking. I got to ask the professionals specific questions one-on-one about topics that I was interested in learning about, such as questions about the industry and their own personal feelings about their jobs. Since I hadn\u2019t prepared a list of questions prior to the event, I did feel like I was put on the spot, and I had to think on my feet in some cases and come up with insightful questions.\u00a0Next time I attend a networking event, I\u2019ll definitely prepare a mental list of questions\u2014just in case.\r\n\r\nSince I was able to conduct mini-informational interviews, I was able to gain insights about various jobs with words, which will inform my future career decisions. Many professionals said they fell into their current positions, and their careers were the product of years of different jobs and discovery of their interests and passions. I've been considering different \"jobs with words\" lately, so it was reassuring to hear that others had non-linear career pathways. I will try to apply a more opened-minded approach to future career decisions and view my past jobs as learning experiences.\r\n\r\nAt the beginning of the year, stepping into an event like this and talking to professionals one-on-one would have paralyzed me with fear. But after attending so many career events this year, I\u2019m slowly starting to get desensitized. However, I\u2019m certainly not a master networker. It will take a few more events and a little more practice before I completely get rid of my self-consciousness, or feel entirely comfortable talking to strangers. But networking is, slowly but surely, getting a little easier every time.","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_31018\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31018\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-31018\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640-300x215.png\" alt=\"A wordle of job-related words\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640-300x215.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2017\/03\/job-1845954_640.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31018\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Job-related words... get it? Picture via Pixabay<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nSo, networking is something I\u2019ve always struggled with. I\u2019m afraid people will think I\u2019m trying to schmooze. I\u2019m afraid of awkward silences. I\u2019m, overall, a very self-conscious person when it comes to networking. However, after going to workshops and networking events\u2014mainly because of my Career Centre Student Blogger job\u2014networking is starting to get a little easier every time.\r\n\r\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2017\/03\/07\/networking-is-getting-a-little-easier\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Networking is Getting a Little Easier&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":301,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7206],"tags":[329,25310,1650],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31017"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/301"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31017"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31017\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31031,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31017\/revisions\/31031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}