{"id":22176,"date":"2014-11-04T12:23:55","date_gmt":"2014-11-04T17:23:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=22176"},"modified":"2014-11-04T12:23:55","modified_gmt":"2014-11-04T17:23:55","slug":"when-the-time-is-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2014\/11\/04\/when-the-time-is-right\/","title":{"rendered":"When the Time is Right"},"content":{"rendered":"I need to catch my breath! Just when I think life will slow down, I realize how wrong I am. If it\u2019s not tests, essays or readings, it\u2019s meetings, volunteering, events and the list goes on. In a perfect world, we would always get everything done. Wishful thinking, right?\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22177\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22177\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0012.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22177\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0012-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Looking straight upwards through the yellow leaves of a large tree in Queen's Park, towards the blue sky above\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0012-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0012-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0012-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22177\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We can sometimes have many things hanging over our head, and we aren't sure exactly when they'll fall on us (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nUniversity can be hectic though. We\u2019ve already discussed balance, maintaining health, mental rest and the like. Sometimes however, this means things don\u2019t go exactly <em>according to plan<\/em>.\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22178\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22178\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-004.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22178\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-004-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Brown and golden maple leaves lying on the lively green grass of Queen's Park\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-004-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-004-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-004-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22178\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">All of a sudden our schedule can fall to pieces like so many leaves (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22179\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22179\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0081.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22179\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0081-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Looking East over the red and yellow trees of St. George Street  towards some of U of T's largest and craziest buildings all stacked on top of each other\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0081-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0081-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22179\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\"Campusopolis\" really is a bustling place, it's no wonder things can get so hectic (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nI attended the You Beyond New student leadership conference on October 24<sup>th<\/sup> which ran from 9:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. but I had to maneuver around classes as well. Despite having to run around campus like a hummingbird on Red Bull, it was worthwhile. I had meaningful conversations, learned about managing groups and even found insight on my future studies.\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.newcollege.utoronto.ca\/studentlife\/leadership\/\">http:\/\/www.newcollege.utoronto.ca\/studentlife\/leadership\/<\/a>\r\n\r\nYeah, I had to pull out all the stops to make that crazy day work. But <em>so what?<\/em> It still went great. I actually like when things go awry and the plan goes out the window; <em>that\u2019s when things get a little more exciting, don\u2019t you think?<\/em>\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22185\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22185\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-020.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22185\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-020-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"My name tag from the You Beyond New conference\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-020-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-020-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-020-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22185\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nIt can be daunting to wade beyond the shallows of your schedule into murkier waters where you can\u2019t see the bottom. Don\u2019t worry; I want you to know that it\u2019s alright if things don\u2019t go as planned.\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22180\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22180\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0131.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22180\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0131-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Peering through crimson red maple canopies up at Soldier's Tower\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0131-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0131-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22180\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Something just felt so right about this view, though it was only by chance I looked up at that moment (Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nAt First Nations House, I attended a Lunch and Learn session with Learning Strategist Bonnie Maracle about Indigenous perspectives on time management. At U of T, time is <em>money<\/em>, time is a <em>tool<\/em> and time is <em>short<\/em>. Sounds a bit rigid, right?\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22181\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22181\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0091.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22181\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0091-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Looking North up St. George, with a very dark sky looming above in the distance\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0091-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0091-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-0091-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22181\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sometimes there is a darkening sky before us, yet we have no time to prepare for the storm. These even happened while I was taking pictures! (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nLuckily, we can apply a different perspective. We don\u2019t <em>use<\/em> or <em>spend <\/em>time; we only live in it. <em>What <\/em>you do is the real key. We can schedule all we want, but we can\u2019t control everything. When the time is right, things work out. When the time isn\u2019t right, we just have to accept it. Sometimes all we can do is r<em>oll with it. Go with the flow. Make it up on the fly.<\/em>\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22182\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22182\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-005.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22182\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-005-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"One of the great big cannons sitting next to the UTSU building\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-005-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-005-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22182\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This big old cannon rolls with it when it blasts away, hence the wheels (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nFor example, I stayed overtime at the Lunch and Learn and showed up a bit late for a tutorial. I would\u2019ve loved to have made it when class started, <em>but the time wasn\u2019t right<\/em>. I was busy having valuable discussions and connecting with peers! Though the original plan went the way of the Dodo, I learned about this important life strategy, enjoyed new friends, and was thus reenergized by the time I made it to class. <em>See???<\/em> When things don\u2019t go according to plan, it doesn\u2019t mean it didn\u2019t go the way it was meant to\u2026\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fnh.utoronto.ca\/Current-Students\/Academic-Support.htm\">http:\/\/www.fnh.utoronto.ca\/Current-Students\/Academic-Support.htm<\/a>\r\n\r\n(Monday \u2013 Friday 9:00am to 5:00 pm Learning Strategist Bonnie Maracle is available to see students)\r\n\r\n(Thursdays 9:00 am to 5:00 pm Elder Andrew Wesley is available to see students)\r\n\r\n(Mondays &amp; Fridays 12:00pm to 5:00 pm Traditional Teacher Lee Maracle is available to see students)\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22183\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22183\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-019.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22183\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-019-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Red, orange, and green vines climbing up the wall of a Victoria College residence\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-019-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-019-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-019-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22183\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">If it's good, it'll grow when the time is right (Photo by Zachary Biech)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nRemember, it\u2019s alright if things don\u2019t always go as planned. When something doesn\u2019t work out, <em>it wasn\u2019t the right time. <\/em>We can\u2019t control everything, and sometimes we just have to roll with it. Though it may not happen when you expect, things eventually go how they\u2019re supposed to when the time is right.\r\n\r\nThe real fun begins when we discover what\u2019s really <em>meant to be<\/em>\u2026\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_22184\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22184\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-018.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-22184\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-018-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"A canopy of vines completely covering the wall of a Victoria College building, but with one odd patch of the vines coloured green instead of orange like the rest of the canopy\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-018-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-018-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/FNH-Blog-018-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-22184\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">When something good grows, it might not look exactly like you'd expect! 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