{"id":35951,"date":"2018-10-17T14:54:58","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T18:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=35951"},"modified":"2018-10-17T14:54:58","modified_gmt":"2018-10-17T18:54:58","slug":"u-of-t-best-buddies-my-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2018\/10\/17\/u-of-t-best-buddies-my-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"U of T Best Buddies: My experience"},"content":{"rendered":"Since Mental Illness Awareness week falls in October, and there is an increasing emphasis on mental health,\u00a0 I thought it would be fitting to discuss my involvement with an organization that changed my entire perspective on <a href=\"https:\/\/bestbuddies.ca\/about-us\/what-is-an-intellectual-disability\/\">intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDDs). <\/a>While these disorders are different from mental illnesses, I can draw many similarities between them. From my experience interacting with people suffering from both, I\u2019ve seen that mental illnesses and IDDs can have the unfortunate results of making those affected feel isolated, helpless and inferior.\r\n\r\nSummer of 2017 I decided to work at a YMCA camp called Wanakita. I was head of the Arts and Crafts division so I had a wonderful time putting together creative activities for campers, though I was also able to interact with individuals from the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.reachforinclusion.ca\">\u201cReach for the Rainbow\u201d <\/a>program. This entity of the camp was comprised of children and adults with IDDs from across Canada that came to get away from the city and experience camp life. As most Reach participants frequented the craft shop, I was lucky enough to get to know many of these campers and to develop my love and appreciation for working with people with disabilities.\r\n\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-35952 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2018\/10\/p_4828_i_8119033-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"258\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2018\/10\/p_4828_i_8119033-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2018\/10\/p_4828_i_8119033-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2018\/10\/p_4828_i_8119033-448x448.jpg 448w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2018\/10\/p_4828_i_8119033.jpg 550w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 258px) 100vw, 258px\" \/>\r\n\r\nUpon returning to school that fall, I got involved with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ulife.utoronto.ca\/organizations\/view\/id\/1871\"><em>U of T\u2019s Best Buddies<\/em> chapter. <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/bestbuddies.ca\"><em>Best Buddies<\/em><\/a> is an international charitable organization \u201cDedicated to enhancing our communities through one-to-one friendships between individuals with intellectual disabilities and students. It\u2019s grounded in the belief that friendship is important to the development of all individuals and that for all individuals with intellectual disabilities friendship is a medium through which they can become a part of their communities.\u201d\r\n\r\nI attended the first meeting in Hart House and filled out a survey detailing my interests, so that I could be matched with a similar \u2018buddy.\u2019 Due to my curiosity surrounding crafts, I was paired with Michael \u2014 a 29-year-old male from the Toronto Islands who has a kind heart and a passion for woodwork.\r\n\r\nAs a student involved you\u2019re expected to commit to your buddy from September to April, calling them once a week and seeing them at least once a month. Michael and I attended multiple events throughout the year that <em>Best Buddies<\/em> ran, such as a Christmas dinner, bowling and Halloween costume parties. I also visited Michael a few times at his group home and we\u2019d go for food at nearby establishments.\r\n\r\nWorking and learning about someone in a position different than my own, might have ended up having a more profound effect on me, than it did him. Honestly my only regret was not seeing Michael more, as school and extra-curriculars sometimes got in the way of our meetings.\u00a0I\u2019m not sure if it\u2019s too <em>textbook<\/em> to say the experience was \u201chumbling\u201d but that\u2019s exactly how I felt.\r\n\r\nIf you'd like to work with people suffering from mental, intellectual or physical disabilities, I'd definitely recommend putting yourself out there and looking for opportunities with <em>Best Buddies\u00a0<\/em>or in the larger Toronto community.\r\n\r\nUntil next week- R\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\n&nbsp;","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nSince Mental Illness Awareness week falls in October, and there is an increasing emphasis on mental health,\u00a0 I thought it would be fitting to discuss my involvement with an organization that changed my entire perspective on intellectual and developmental disabilities&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2018\/10\/17\/u-of-t-best-buddies-my-experience\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;U of T Best Buddies: My experience&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2018\/10\/17\/u-of-t-best-buddies-my-experience\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;U of T Best Buddies: My experience&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":354,"featured_media":35952,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[826,7204,62,65,1,70,69,58,66,82,67],"tags":[153,1190,14543],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35951"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/354"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35951"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35951\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36022,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35951\/revisions\/36022"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35951"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35951"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35951"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}