{"id":28498,"date":"2016-06-21T08:54:57","date_gmt":"2016-06-21T12:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=28498"},"modified":"2016-06-21T08:54:57","modified_gmt":"2016-06-21T12:54:57","slug":"sixteen-candles-u-of-ts-pride-pub-coming-of-age","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2016\/06\/21\/sixteen-candles-u-of-ts-pride-pub-coming-of-age\/","title":{"rendered":"Sixteen Candles: U of T&#8217;s Pride Pub Coming of Age"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_28500\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28500\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28500\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of a lit candle being held during a vigil\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28500\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">candles at the Toronto vigil for Orlando victims<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nJune is Pride Month and regardless of how each one of us identify, it is a month that we all should be proud of. A month where we can rally together and celebrate diversity, equality, inclusivity, and freedom from discrimination. This year is an especially important one. Just a week ago, the LGBTQ+ community was shaken to the core due to a mass shooting in Orlando at Pulse Night Club, which claimed the lives of 49 people and left 53 others injured. The scale of this hate crime is the largest of its kind and one that has sent ripples across the world and throughout the LGBTQ+ community. In response to such a tragedy, LGBTQ+ communities in solidarity have stood defiantly, reclaiming the original intent of Pride Month: to fearlessly push back against violent discrimination by loudly celebrating diversity and being more visible, because everyone has the right to love and be loved without being afraid.\r\n\r\n<!--more-->\r\n\r\nI know that my past posts haven\u2019t opened with such a serious tone, but I needed to clarify the importance of U of T\u2019s Sweet 16 Pride Pub. Not only has U of T held these pride pubs for 16 years, but for 16 years U of T has and continues to commit to creating an environment of equality and safety for as long as people experience discrimination. In saying this, I\u2019d like to commend the Sexual &amp; Gender Diversity Office for the marvelous job they do of organizing this event.\r\n\r\nNow for those of you who didn\u2019t make it out to Pride Pub on Friday, here is a play by play of what I got up to!\r\n\r\n<strong>Giant Jenga<\/strong>\r\n\r\nThe Equity Movement, Move U and Camp U of T set up a giant game of Jenga. \u00a0I was a little intimidated to step in and play. I mean, it seemed to always be occupied by large groups of people, so its popularity was definitely quite high, but I did get in there! Right in the middle of some groups game when they weren\u2019t looking, I silently crept in and moved one block from the bottom and put it on top. I may have contributed to the following picture:\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_28501\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28501\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2589.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28501\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2589-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"picture of giant jenga blocks toppled over\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2589-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2589-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2589-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28501\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I didn't do it, I swear<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\n<strong>Button Making:<\/strong>\r\n\r\nIt was really nice to meet a cool group of people while being creative. I must admit, me and a fellow conspirator may have hogged the good glue stick because my version of button making is highly competitive. Here\u2019s my finished product:\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_28502\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28502\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2651.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28502\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2651-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of a button with a flock of seagulls on it\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2651-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2651-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2651-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28502\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">a flock of seagulls!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\n<strong>Information Fair<\/strong>\r\n\r\nSo much information in such little time! I got to speak with some amazing people at the \u201cGaymers\u201d booth and am looking forward to defeating them all in a round of Catan (IRL, I\u2019ll probably end up with a monopoly on wool and nothing else \ud83d\ude41 ). I also spent some time speaking with the folks from the Inside Out Film Festival and also getting information on PrEP.\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_28503\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28503\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2590.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28503\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2590-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of an information booth\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2590-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2590-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2590-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28503\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">so much of information<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\n<strong>Barbecue<\/strong>\r\n\r\nThe hotdogs, the burgers, the slaw!\u00a0 Everything was delicious! The best part? The prices were student friendly and extremely affordable! I\u2019ll spare you all the mouth-watering details of the condiments I used and the beverages I purchased to wash it all down.\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_28504\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28504\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2626.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28504\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2626-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of a man flipping burgers on a barbecue\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2626-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2626-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2626-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28504\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">burgers...mmm<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\n<strong>Entertainment<\/strong>\r\n\r\nThe people who attended Pride Pub were fortunate enough to get to watch the Toronto Kiki Ballroom Alliance perform. This show was fantastic, especially for someone like myself who was born with two left feet. These guys killed it and I\u2019m sad that I didn\u2019t take any pictures of it. I was too involved in the experience of watching them dance, that for the first time in my life, I forgot about my phone!\r\n\r\n<strong>Music<\/strong>\r\n\r\nNow I did end up leaving before I was subjected to dancing. But I did get a chance to listen to the music by the fantastic DJ Cozmic Cat. She always has exemplary sets and even though I didn\u2019t get to go ham on the dancefloor, my spirit was there with her! I\u2019m sure the other DJ\u2019s did not disappoint!\r\n\r\n<strong>ORLANDO Banner<\/strong>\r\n\r\nThe last thing I wanted to mention was the Orlando Banner. It took me a couple of days to sort through my emotions and figure out what I wanted to write, but I did it. Furthermore, the messages written by all the contributors were inspiring and beautiful.\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_28506\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28506\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2586.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28506\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2586-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of a tribute banner to Orlando mass shooting victims\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2586-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2586-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2586-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28506\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">inspiring and reflective thoughts for Orlando<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nTo end this post, I wanted to share with you something one of the organizers said to me when I asked her about safe spaces. She said that safe spaces shouldn\u2019t be limited to safety alone, it should also be a space where someone is celebrated, appreciated and encouraged to be exactly who they are. And that, friends, is exactly what Pride Pub was and hopefully will continue to be!\r\n\r\n&nbsp;","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_28500\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28500\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28500\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"a picture of a lit candle being held during a vigil\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/06\/IMG_2558-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28500\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">candles at the Toronto vigil for Orlando victims<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nJune is Pride Month and regardless of how each one of us identify, it is a month that we all should be proud of. A month where we can rally together and celebrate diversity, equality, inclusivity, and freedom from discrimination. This year is an especially important one. Just a week ago, the LGBTQ+ community was shaken to the core due to a mass shooting in Orlando at Pulse Night Club, which claimed the lives of 49 people and left 53 others injured. The scale of this hate crime is the largest of its kind and one that has sent ripples across the world and throughout the LGBTQ+ community. In response to such a tragedy, LGBTQ+ communities in solidarity have stood defiantly, reclaiming the original intent of Pride Month: to fearlessly push back against violent discrimination by loudly celebrating diversity and being more visible, because everyone has the right to love and be loved without being afraid.\r\n\r\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2016\/06\/21\/sixteen-candles-u-of-ts-pride-pub-coming-of-age\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Sixteen Candles: U of T&#8217;s Pride Pub Coming of Age&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":288,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[65,1,69,67],"tags":[153,750,761,16279,12563,16280],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28498"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/288"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28498"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28512,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28498\/revisions\/28512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}