{"id":27585,"date":"2016-02-22T09:19:43","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T14:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=27585"},"modified":"2018-05-29T10:07:09","modified_gmt":"2018-05-29T14:07:09","slug":"the-exchange-time-warp","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2016\/02\/22\/the-exchange-time-warp\/","title":{"rendered":"The Exchange Time Warp"},"content":{"rendered":"I have a birthday coming up in a few weeks, and it\u2019s the first year where I feel like my age makes me sound like an adult. But I\u2019m having trouble wrapping my head around my new age, because since I\u2019ve been on exchange, I haven\u2019t been able to shake the feeling that I\u2019m back in first year.\r\n\r\n<!--more-->\r\n\r\nThere\u2019s something about an exchange that totally warps time. Maybe it\u2019s the feeling of walking around a new campus lost and confused, or spending time in grungy residence buildings again. Or maybe it\u2019s discovering new things all the time, from favourite study spots to fun clubs. Whatever it is, it\u2019s kind of cool being able to feel like a wide-eyed 18 year old first year again.\r\n\r\nDon\u2019t get me wrong, you mature a lot when you go on exchange. But at the same time, you get to recapture the great feelings of newness and excitement that you might have lost over the less-than-enchanting later years of undergrad.\r\n\r\nSo I thought I would try to figure out where that magical excitement was coming from to give any future exchange participants out there a preview of the good stuff to come (and to maybe the rest of you recapture some of the magic, even as you trek through four years at U of T). I came up with four things that I think are keeping my excitement levels up this year and taking me back to those beautiful, optimistic first years of undergrad\u2026\r\n<ol>\r\n \t<li><strong>Joining new clubs<\/strong>. Cast your mind back to first year \u2013 remember the club fair that you went to and signed up for every club you came across (or was that just me?). After first year, you probably skipped the clubs fair every fall. But on exchange you will probably find yourself at a clubs fair again, and just like in first year, you\u2019ll find yourself signing up for every club you see. Full disclosure, you will probably ignore most of the event invitations from all those Facebook groups you joined. But there will definitely be a few clubs that you actually go to, and you\u2019ll meet new friends, have a great time, and do the second thing on my list\u2026<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_27594\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-27594\" style=\"width: 193px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20151023_121804458.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-27594\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20151023_121804458-193x300.jpg\" alt=\"My haul from this Fall's club fair.\" width=\"193\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20151023_121804458-193x300.jpg 193w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20151023_121804458-659x1024.jpg 659w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20151023_121804458.jpg 1449w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 193px) 100vw, 193px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-27594\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My haul from this Fall's club fair.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<ol start=\"2\">\r\n \t<li><strong>Discovering new activities. <\/strong>One of the clubs I signed up for this fall was the University of Edinburgh Hillwalking Club, which sounded a bit exotic to me, but is really just a very British way of saying a hiking club. I\u2019ve never been a huge outdoor activity enthusiast, but joining this club and hiking in Scotland really got me excited about it. I hadn\u2019t really found any new activities that I loved doing for years, and this was definitely one of the things that revived all of my enthusiasm for university life when I came on exchange.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_27593\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-27593\" style=\"width: 250px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20160214_115226060_HDR.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-27593\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2016\/02\/IMG_20160214_115226060_HDR-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"A picture from a recent &quot;hillwalk&quot;, one of my favourite new activities.\" width=\"250\" height=\"435\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-27593\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A picture from a recent \"hillwalk\", one of my favourite new activities.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<ol start=\"3\">\r\n \t<li><strong>Making new friends<\/strong>. If your first year was like mine, it was basically a year of becoming friends (or trying to become friends) with everyone and anyone you met. You didn\u2019t really know anybody, so everyone was a potential best friend. After that year of friend-making extravaganza, though, friendships start to solidify and you don\u2019t really need to befriend everyone you meet. That all changes when you go on exchange. Chances are you really don\u2019t know anybody, and you\u2019re back to square one on the friend front. And back to trying to make friends everywhere you go, which is inevitably exciting (and maybe a little scary at times)!<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<ol start=\"4\">\r\n \t<li><strong>Messing things up<\/strong>. This one sounds pretty unpleasant and un-exciting, but hear me out. You will definitely mess things up when you go on exchange. The rules are different, the expectations are different, the school assignments are different. There are lots of opportunities for mistakes. But that can actually turn out to be really exciting and sort of fun. It makes you realize you don\u2019t have it all figured out, which is scary, but also energizing. And it definitely makes you pay attention again, after coasting through undergrad for so long.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\nSo there you have it! My guide to all the exciting, time warping, semi-disorienting aspects of life on exchange.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I have a birthday coming up in a few weeks, and it\u2019s the first year where I feel like my age makes me sound like an adult. But I\u2019m having trouble wrapping my head around my new age, because since I\u2019ve been on exchange, I haven\u2019t been able to shake the feeling that I\u2019m back in first year.\r\n\r\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2016\/02\/22\/the-exchange-time-warp\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;The Exchange Time Warp&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":275,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2407,1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27585"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/275"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27585"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27595,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27585\/revisions\/27595"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}