{"id":21809,"date":"2014-10-15T11:37:38","date_gmt":"2014-10-15T15:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/?p=21809"},"modified":"2014-10-15T11:37:38","modified_gmt":"2014-10-15T15:37:38","slug":"how-to-deal-2003-with-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2014\/10\/15\/how-to-deal-2003-with-stress\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal (2003) with Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<strong>Okay guys, let\u2019s be real: University can be stressful.<\/strong>\r\n\r\nAnd the award for \u201cthe biggest understatement of the year\u201d goes to me!\r\n\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_21811\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21811\" style=\"width: 779px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/obey.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-21811\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/obey.jpg\" alt=\"A picture of me wearing a cap backwards, and pointing at the webcam.\" width=\"779\" height=\"720\" srcset=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/obey.jpg 779w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/obey-300x277.jpg 300w, http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/files\/2014\/10\/obey-324x300.jpg 324w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 779px) 100vw, 779px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21811\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I'm a winner!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n\r\nSeriously though \u2013 university can be stressful; I\u2019m not lying about that. Between your exams, assignments, tutorials, iClicker quizzes, extracurricular activities, friends, family, and everything else under the sun \u2013 it\u2019s pretty difficult to find time to just, you know, breathe.\r\n\r\nTrust me, I know. In honour of Mental Wellness\u00a0Month at U of T (and midterms), I thought it\u2019d be good to take a moment to talk about my experiences with stress. I want to talk about how I deal with stress \u2013 not how I dealt with stress \u2013 because stress for everyone is honestly an ongoing battle.\r\n\r\nAs someone with Depression, stress has always been something that I have dealt with, whether it is being stressed about things I should be stressed about, like exams, or being stressed for the sake of being stressed. <strong>Hi, my name is Ondiek, and I'm a stressed-out individual.<\/strong>\r\n\r\nI\u00a0won't\u00a0sugar coat it; it\u2019s a struggle. Depressive moods, stress, and apathy are enormously difficult for me to avoid, despite how proficient I\u2019ve become at masking it. I\u2019ve learned since I started University being able to hide it\u00a0not enough. I learned that as much as I wanted to; I\u00a0couldn't just lie down in melancholy waiting for my meds to kick in forever.\r\n\r\n<strong>I'm pretty much Cameron Frye, but that doesn't mean I can\u2019t try my best to be a Ferris.<\/strong>\r\n\r\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rIqWSPUh2rY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; encrypted-media\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\r\n\r\nThere are many things I do to deal with my stressful moods. <strong>First and foremost, I like to entrench myself in comedy.<\/strong> I love funny and ironic things even when I\u2019m not stressed. Whenever I find myself in dark situations, the first thing I do is find something to entertain my trashy mind. Whether it is watching the 1995 masterpiece <em>Showgirls<\/em> starring Jessie Spano, or singing along to pre-\u201cMy Heart Will Go On\u201d Celine Dion power ballads \u2013 I feel better.\r\n\r\n<strong>If that doesn\u2019t work, then I bake.<\/strong> Oh God, do I bake. I can\u2019t tell you just how many loaves of chocolate chip banana bread I made while cramming at 2am. Baking just feels right when I\u2019m stressed, y\u2019know? For a few minutes I\u2019m free from my stressor (stu-dying), and then I can get back to it while knowing that I have a treat waiting for me in 30-40 minutes. Sometimes I like to combine my love of irony and baking. While listening to the entire <em>Jagged Little Pill<\/em> album, I can eat my banana bread with a bowl of ice cream in angsty solace.\r\n\r\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Jne9t8sHpUc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; encrypted-media\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\r\n\r\n<strong>And if all else fails, I take a nap.<\/strong> For some people, sleeping while stressed is difficult, but not for me. I can fall asleep pretty easily, and I\u2019m thankful for that. Sleep is a nice temporary escape from my troubles, and I rarely wake up in turmoil. Still, I always make sure that a nap is just a nap. There\u2019s a fine line between taking a nap, and then oversleeping because you just don\u2019t want to be awake, and I still struggle with that, so, I save napping as my trump card.\r\n\r\nIn the end, I still get stressed, but I know that it doesn\u2019t have to be that way forever. I can take active measures to reduce that stress. <strong>My efforts make me a happier and healthier individual, and that\u2019s good enough for now.<\/strong>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n<div class=\"entry-summary\">\nOkay guys, let\u2019s be real: University can be stressful. And the award for \u201cthe biggest understatement of the year\u201d goes to me! Seriously though \u2013 university can be stressful; I\u2019m not lying about that. Between your exams, assignments, tutorials, iClicker&hellip;\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2014\/10\/15\/how-to-deal-2003-with-stress\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;How to Deal (2003) with Stress&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/2014\/10\/15\/how-to-deal-2003-with-stress\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;How to Deal (2003) with Stress&rdquo;<\/span>&hellip;<\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"author":226,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,58,67],"tags":[9457,1439,11005,85],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21809"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/226"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21809"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21809\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21855,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21809\/revisions\/21855"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.studentlife.utoronto.ca\/lifeatuoft\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}